Don't Fake It Until You Make It Achieving Orgasm for Women
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have a difficult time achieving orgasm. Current studies reveal anywhere from 50% to 75% of women cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Instead, they resort to faking orgasms or feel the need to do it every now and then. Why is this so difficult, especially since most all women are capable of multiple orgasms? There are many reasons for why women fake orgasm, but the majority of women fake for three main reasons: 1) They love and care for their partner and do not want to hurt their feelings or make them feel inadequate; 2) They are embarrassed to tell their partner because they have already been faking for so long; 3) They genuinely enjoy the closeness but have a hard time communicating their needs or do not want to appear needy or difficult.
In our society, orgasm plays a huge San Antonio Spurs Wholesale in our sexual experiences. The most common reason, however, for faking orgasms is to avoid inflicting feelings of sexual inadequacy on their partner. To avoid these feelings, people, especially women, fake an orgasm.
Talking about orgasm is very uncomfortable for most people and a general taboo to our society. As a result, many women are very unaware of the possibility of faking an orgasm, while other women cannot seem to distinguish the genuine orgasm from the fake orgasm. The disappointment and hurt, knowing their partner has faked an orgasm, causes the avoidance of the topic all together.
Here are a few important notes:
Some people can reach sexual satisfaction during sexual intercourse, without achieving an orgasm, and view the extra effort in attempting it as tedious.
Some women can only reach orgasms through stimulation of the clitoris (clitoral orgasms), and not by penetration. Not all sexual positions provide access to the clitoris, thus preventing actual orgasms.
Some people are unable to have orgasms - a condition known as anorgasmia.
One partner might be tired, and would like to end the sexual act without offending their sexual partner.
Two partners may begin the sexual act under the influence of alcohol or other drugs. The effect of these substances can sometimes cause people to be unaware of their choice in sexual partners - if this effect wears off during sex, and one (or both) partners realize this, one might choose to fake an orgasm to avoid creating an embarrassing situation.
Many women who struggle with achieving an orgasm may not feel that their body or their feelings of arousal are in their own control, and lack a sense of ownership. Their body image may be so negative that they cannot feel good or feel comfortable about opening up sexually. Many women report that they are unhappy with how they look and are embarrassed to be seen or touched. A patient of mine has described this experience as "I don't know what comes over me. We start out holding each other and I feel good and safe and ready to make love. And then the inevitable happens. We take off our clothes and I am so ashamed and disgusted that all I can think about is what he must see. When he runs his hands gently over my hips he looks happy... but I want to cry and run out of the room!"
Unfortunately, because of the unrealistic body and appearance standards that our society overtly imposes on women, plus the social norms, women actually question whether or not they are in full control over their own body image. Women and their partners may have a hard time initiating arousal because she is unaware of how to become aroused. For women, their bodies can take up to thirty minutes of stimulation or arousal to have an orgasm. To the contrary, most men can achieve arousal to orgasm with in three minutes. This time difference makes it very difficult for each partner to achieve a fulfilling sexual experience and many times the women feels left behind. Even more, about 80% of women can only achieve an orgasm by way of clitoral stimulation? This means that if you or your partner is unaware of this fact, you have likely been missing out on a cheap sunglasses sexual experience and regular orgasms.
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In our society, orgasm plays a huge San Antonio Spurs Wholesale in our sexual experiences. The most common reason, however, for faking orgasms is to avoid inflicting feelings of sexual inadequacy on their partner. To avoid these feelings, people, especially women, fake an orgasm.
Talking about orgasm is very uncomfortable for most people and a general taboo to our society. As a result, many women are very unaware of the possibility of faking an orgasm, while other women cannot seem to distinguish the genuine orgasm from the fake orgasm. The disappointment and hurt, knowing their partner has faked an orgasm, causes the avoidance of the topic all together.
Here are a few important notes:
Some people can reach sexual satisfaction during sexual intercourse, without achieving an orgasm, and view the extra effort in attempting it as tedious.
Some women can only reach orgasms through stimulation of the clitoris (clitoral orgasms), and not by penetration. Not all sexual positions provide access to the clitoris, thus preventing actual orgasms.
Some people are unable to have orgasms - a condition known as anorgasmia.
One partner might be tired, and would like to end the sexual act without offending their sexual partner.
Two partners may begin the sexual act under the influence of alcohol or other drugs. The effect of these substances can sometimes cause people to be unaware of their choice in sexual partners - if this effect wears off during sex, and one (or both) partners realize this, one might choose to fake an orgasm to avoid creating an embarrassing situation.
Many women who struggle with achieving an orgasm may not feel that their body or their feelings of arousal are in their own control, and lack a sense of ownership. Their body image may be so negative that they cannot feel good or feel comfortable about opening up sexually. Many women report that they are unhappy with how they look and are embarrassed to be seen or touched. A patient of mine has described this experience as "I don't know what comes over me. We start out holding each other and I feel good and safe and ready to make love. And then the inevitable happens. We take off our clothes and I am so ashamed and disgusted that all I can think about is what he must see. When he runs his hands gently over my hips he looks happy... but I want to cry and run out of the room!"
Unfortunately, because of the unrealistic body and appearance standards that our society overtly imposes on women, plus the social norms, women actually question whether or not they are in full control over their own body image. Women and their partners may have a hard time initiating arousal because she is unaware of how to become aroused. For women, their bodies can take up to thirty minutes of stimulation or arousal to have an orgasm. To the contrary, most men can achieve arousal to orgasm with in three minutes. This time difference makes it very difficult for each partner to achieve a fulfilling sexual experience and many times the women feels left behind. Even more, about 80% of women can only achieve an orgasm by way of clitoral stimulation? This means that if you or your partner is unaware of this fact, you have likely been missing out on a cheap sunglasses sexual experience and regular orgasms.
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